Responsibility

04/07/2010

Today topic will be a very boring topic, responsibility.

Responsibility is a heavy burden. If you search this word in Wikitionary, it means ;

1. The state of being responsible, accountable, or answerable.
2. A duty, obligation or liability for which someone is held accountable.

And more other meaning. I notice that, there are a lot people who doesn't take their responsibility completely or fully. Especially the lecturers.

Our building construction lecturer.
When we ask her things that we don't know, she said that we are suppose to find the answer on our own. Erm, yeaa.. We are actually finding it on our own by asking you. We take initiative to ask you, so basically we're finding it on our own. But she said that look in the internet. What the hell? Even we ask other lecturer an answer of NO appeared from her too.

Our building construction tutor.
When we ask him something we forgot or he already explained. He will say last week I tell you all already, so don't ask me again. Why got so many days don't do? Now only do the assignment?!

Thats what he said to us. If you really want to know why, its because we don't know how to do and we did it wrong so many times, we redo and redo and redo. Thats why it takes so much time. Its not like we want to do it last minute. He also said, if you hand in before 9.00 o clock, I'll deduct your mark by around 50%, haven't finish also hand in. He will be in the college until 1 o'clock, he want us to hand in before 9.00 because he wanted to make things easier for him. Oh Wow?

Why don't you make things a little easier for us?

I really don't understands. This case makes more than 50% of us likes him changed to dislike.

Please be considerate a bit.

Mathematic for Construction.
Nothing much to say. Just that she have not enough patients. Have a hot temper.
As our teacher, shouldn't she be more patients? When a student ask her a question that she don't understands, the teacher answered, ask the person beside you. When the examination, we are late because of a class before it, and its raining so damn heavy. She scolded. We did told her we have class, and she did promise to give us 15 minutes to arrive there. Scold here scold there.

Friends.
When a friend asked another friend to morning call him because he scare he will oversleep.

They called him for 20+ calls, that fellow still no response. Everyone is waiting for him downstairs the apartment. Causes the others to be late, in the end they don't wait for him.

Not only that, he took a part of another person assignment with him. Causing a redraw on the spot to be made.

Another friend of mine married.
Have a 1 year old baby. Probably the same age with me or just a year bigger. Now, her husband don't want her. So irresponsible, making this friend of mine so sad, even tried to commit suicide.
A cut on her wrist, luckily noticed early, nothing major happened. Felt so sorry for her, hopes she can stand strong, wish her can get the things she wants.

I really don't understand what is guys thinking even I'm a guy. Don't they think before they do "it" ? Don't simply make such a decision. Don't they know its a very big responsibility they have to take? It is not only about the guy life, but the girl's family, the girl, and the baby life.

Pets.
My far end house neighbor have a yellow color dog as their pet. Then, they don't want the dog anymore. Let the dog out of their house, with the thinking of letting it free. Do you know that this dog is very pity? Not only that, your so called let it free, is still the same. The dog now keep come to my house, barks early in the morning disturbing me to sleep. Peeing at my main gate. ARHH !
Don't you know that taking care of a dog is a promise of forever?!

I belief that,

Marriage, Friendship, Pets, Promises, Jobs,

every job, every single person,

have their own responsibility.

Really hopes they choose a proper action before they do it.

-Mun Chun-